Details on Mochitsuki and on painless delivery clinic

Good evening.

It is Mr. Otto.

Follow this Ori’s article.

mochitsuki japan fukuoka delicious event The end of the year

At our company, last year we had the usual Mochitsuki.
There seems to have been done with Mochitsuki,
If you think about it, you have not done it.
So, as I heard such a voice within the company,
By making it an annual event from the end of the last year,
It came to be held on the day of paying work.

Last year, Ori was unable to participate due to unfortunate work,
This year, because it kept me a day off for that day,
Ori became the first Mochitsuki.

Have you eaten a freshly squeezed Mochi?
I thought that it was enough as I sold it at supermarket etc,
For the freshly made Mochi, it is delicious as it is a slippery!

You can eat it with Japanese radish sauce,
You can eat it with Anko (I do not like it, though)
There is a new discovery as to whether it is possible to make it so delicious.

However, although there are preparations and hardships …

Well there is a yearly event like this with everyone together,
Every year, it means that this time is being healthy,
It is a pleasant thing.

Well, as Ori said,
About 2 hours with a change of the clinic, I was stupid.

Ori said that the management situation of the maternal hospital there seems to be dangerous from the past,
As for me it was impossible to be with the sweet idea that there would be another problem here …
I really regretted Ori.

Well, there are things I’d like to say to various clinics before I change.

As I knew last month,
Why did not you tell me that even at the briefing we went last month it might be such a thing,
What will happen to the pregnant women who are currently taking a check-up or planning to give birth next month? or,
It is too irresponsible! There is only a feeling like that.

However, no matter what we say now we do not have specifications,
Anyway, since I knew it (this is also scary Ori says that I will try to call you, I did not know until I called) !
We hurriedly searched for a nearby clinic.

Before that, I had decided where to move,
When the previous clinic runs out, where do I really have to do The inside of the head is a mutual lady …

Looking for it, there are quite a few painless delivery facilities in Fukuoka prefecture,
While there were places close to the moving place, there was only one case was the clinic written by Ori.

I have not heard any direct stories yet,
I think that there were various uneasiness as Ori,
I feel sorry I can not stay by my side.

The importance of looking for a hospital, especially concerning birth, but I felt.

I can only do as I pray that things will go well,
I think that I would like to prepare the environment that Ori can feel pleasant and safe as much as possible.

Finally, it is the old year.
Although there were various in this year,
I guess there will be more variety next year than this year.
There are fun and uneasiness,
We hope to cooperate with Ori and make it a happy year.

Since the year-end and New Year holidays with Ori forever,
We are consulting what kind of DVD we should watch.

Well then, next time!


Birth and Fetal movement

Good morning. I’m Ori-san.

The day before yesterday, there was “Mochituski” at Otto-san’s home.
Perhaps the first time to participate in “Mochituski”?
Mochitsuki rice cakes are delicious.
I reviewed a little about “Omochi” 😀

A big incident occurred yesterday than such a thing.
The hospital which was going to give birth is suddenly closed · · ·
It is due to circumstances of adults on the management side,
It seems there is no problem with the hospital,
I understood that we can not accept birth for a while.
Moreover, I found a phone call from me · · ·  It was really shocking.

However, it is truly reassuring that a person who thinks together as myself is next to me.
Even when I was calling a hospital, Otto-san was there next to me, so I think I managed to keep it at ease.

We changed the schedule and we had a meeting.
Yesterday I was able to find a place to accept painless labor in a nearby hospital.
It seems that costs are suppressed as a result 😀  It was good that I did not go over the years like this.
Although it is a little uneasy that it is not a painless specialist hospital, I will try to talk firmly with my midwife.

However, the anxiety seemed to have been big, and now I became alone Tears stopped stopping in the morning.
(It’s a secret to Otto-san, lol)
But as I spit out here, this story is over.
In a new hospital, I pray only for meeting with Cotori-san, I will switch my mind!

But, there were also very good things.

I was able to feel fetal movement for the first time in a car headed for Mochitsuki.
After that, Cot0ri-san is moving cheerfully in my stomach.
I wonder if I wanted to participate in “Omochi Petan Petan”.

Sense of tummy movement regardless of my intention,
It is nothing … but,
New feelings for Cotori-san seems to have been born.
I’m talking to Cotori-san while stroking my stomach.
Will it gradually become a mother like this?


Cottori’s painless childbirth

Good morning.
Very sunny morning, it is fresh Ori-san.

We decided to painless childbirth.
In Fukuoka it will be planned delivery in plenty little painless special hospital.
As one of the methods of childbirth, 60 to 70% have been painless in Western countries for some time and it seems that they are approaching 50% in Tokyo.
In overseas it is also narrative that driving the car by herself and leaving hospital for the next day of birth is often.

Both merit and demerit are births, but certainly it is a decisive factor that the burden on mothers and babies is low, recovery after birth is fast, and the ability to concentrate immediately on childcare later can be decided.
I do not want to hurt! It is the biggest reason:D

In the case of the clinic selected by us, the hospital stay will be somewhat longer than in natural delivery, but we are drunk here! Let’s pay hospital fee.

By the way, childbirth cost seems to be about 200,000yen higher than natural delivery.

And the midwife said to be 35 years old to have awareness of high risk birth! It is!
In the recent thirties, the body is suitable for years even though it looks young.
It seems that future health guidance seems to be difficult, Ori-san who has already gained weight a little, is uneasy lol

There was also a confirmation of intention as to how to do the amniotic fluid test because of my age.
As we were talking about in advance, we do not do the examination.
As long as we are children, we promised to grow with full power with affection.

Oh, husband’s presentation I told my teacher that I did not have a childbirth, was it good? 😀

Otto-san was showing off at once, but for the first time in 4D I saw Cotori-san in my stomach and I was thinking that I had to review my mother’s life properly. It was a clinic visit.

Otto-san wonder if he got aware of his father a little.

Well well, I’m Uki-Uki from the morning, I am leaving for our honeymoon from now.
I am going worship prayers for Ise-Jingu!


Confirm Cotori in 4D!


It is Otto-san.

Last Saturday, I have been to the clinic with Ori-san.
I am the first time to visit obstetrics and gynecology,
Naturally many pregnant women 😀

This time, we went to the clinic by two people,
Whether giving birth to that clinic or not,
Ultrasonic waves, and 4D! It was a casual feeling as I said that I wanted to see it with.

First of all, about the clinic,
Two people talked about pregnancy to choose painless labor.
However, Fukuoka still has few institutions that can give births with painless delivery,
As a result of talking with a lot of things to do, as a result of saying that the clinic is good,
I was asked to do the examination on that day when there was a briefing on painless delivery.

For painless labor, there may be good or bad for individuals,
It is also from the stage we are investigating as our birthing method we chose,
Even after listening to the explanation at the clinic, I feel that this method is good again.

Personally, the pregnant woman does not feel pain (painless delivery is not completely painless),
I think that there is nothing to be worse if the burden on the mother and fetus at birth is small,
If it is not painful accompanied by birth, it is not childbirth. After knowing that there are strange customs that remain,
We decided to go with this method.

Ori-san will explain more details (about expenses etc.) about the neighborhood as well?

So, I do not hesitate to choose painless labor,
It is only a wish for both mother and child to be able to give birth in a healthy state.

Well, as you can see in the title, you have to show Cotori’s 4D image!

baby 4d 3d Ultrasonic wave  Pregnant woman

Wow, when I saw this first, I was surprised!
Although I did not think that 4D could be seen,
It seems like this clearly this time.
It’s still 9.2 cm, 25 g, but it looks very big.
Ori-san said that today did not move. As I said, I did not make a tremor, so I took pictures beautifully.
I also wanted to see it moving, but expect it again next time.
The umbilical cord looks like a male vessel, Cotori’s over there so big! I was thinking unintentionally,
I do not know Cotori is a boy or a girl yet.
It is hope that I do not know either until I come out,
Will not you know that if you look so clear up to this point?

I felt a certain growth and got a good experience.

Finally Ori-san stomach came out.
It’s not that fat Ori-san never felt! (Ori-san talks)

Pregnant woman stomach baby bulge

See you!

Otto and Ori -san’s pregnancy life

It is Ori-san who has suddenly stomach got bigger.

I have drunk much drinking so far, but since I noticed Cotori’s existence, I got quit so quietly that I was surprised.
Although the work drinking party is a little troublesome, at the time of meal with Otto-san, I do not mind even if he drink it in front of my eyes (rather fun), but he does not mind.
Otto-san who likes alcohol also has a slight damage to the liver, so it is a good opportunity to abstain from drinking together! Also tobacco … 😀

However, the soft drink of the restaurant is juice or oolong tea, is not it?
While I am eating, I do not like juice but I can not help it, I’m getting fat.
I’d like to put mineral water or carbonated water.

Well, tomorrow is a fun dating with Otto-san.
Besides, I will see a gynecology department with Otto-san for him the first time!
Exciting tear drops, expectation.


Pregnant women’s abstinence and caffeiness

Good evening

It is Otto.

Today, I’d like to talk about Ori’s change after pregnancy.

Ori-san like alcohol.
Ori-san did not drink until knew about pregnancy.
It is natural, but I think that it is hard to do from Ori-san.
Anyway, Ori-san still work, there will be a drinking party at work,
Above all, Ori-san went to dinner with me, it is tough to not drink Ori-san …

So, I will not drink alcohol with me eating with Ori-san!
I guess I’d drink about a cup of beer, but I guess it would be wise not to drink as it will not stop there.

If two people can eat delicious dishes without drinking, I wonder if I am happy.

Caffeine is also a problem.

Ori-san, loves coffee.
I am, too.
In Japan, there are still few stores offering such as decafé (caffeinres coffee)
There are also things that are sold at stores.
So, recently, is it drinking mainly at Starbuck’s Decafa,Ruibos Tea at home.
(It is when you are together.)
If you look for it on the net, there are various things,
Caffeinres There is a thing that makes tea (I bought it!),
Various goods came out according to the flow of the times, I am glad.

However, even if you try to drink coffee or tea outside yet, there are few places offering caffeiness,
I do not even have Komeda coffee in Japananese famaous coffee shop, which should have many families.

Since Ori got pregnant, I began to think a lot of such things.
I hear that we have decafé anywhere overseas,
I wonder if Japan still has plenty. (Actually, I do not know because I have never been abroad)

Even so, I really feel pregnant women are serious.

I wish I could quit drinking, and I guess it would be better not to have coffee or green tea,
As expected, is not it stressful?
Well, I would like to drink coffee, green tea and black tea, right?

So, I also live a caffeiness life with Ori-san.
If you look for coffee and tea, there are lots of things you can do, you can drink delicious drinks without going to the shop!

I think it is necessary for more company efforts.
I would like to go to that shop and provide more satisfactory products.

Have you ever tried decafé?
It is tasty as ordinary coffee.
Please try something, please drink once.

I hope that there will be more places with caffeiness.

※It seems that Ori-san stomach came out suddenly. The situation is next time again!


About me: Ori-san

Hello. I’m Ori-san (wife).

Otto-san (husband) clicked with me on our first date. So we got married.
I thought I was ready to get pregnant after the marriage and stopped using contraception.
Then Cotori (our unborn baby) clicked with me.

Both of us are over 35 years old. Cotori is our treasure like a miracle.

Ori-san is living in a busy town, and in the middle pregnant.
(Otto-san is living in a countryside.)

I expected heavy morning sickness because Otto-san and I read a book called “You are a baby” over and over again. “You are a baby” was written by Mieko Kawakami and Otto-san recommended me.
Luckily my symptom during early pregnancy was only “I’m too sleepy!!” I didn’t have anything else. When I was thinking “pregnancy is only like this—“

I caught a cold. I know it’s a cold, just a cold!
During pregnancy I can’t take any medicine. I didn’t imagine this having “just a cold” is such a hardship….
(I couldn’t stand it anymore. So I went to see an obstetrician and gynaecologist but I was given only cough syrup. You know it is like a child’s medicine. I have a bad sore throat!! )
I heard immunity declines during pregnancy. I understand that’s true.
It’s already 18 days since the symptom of the cold started. It seems to be still long way till I get well perfectly· · ·

Anyway, the high temperature phase has ended in these 2-3-days. My body temperature has come down so obviously.
My berry seems to be getting bigger so quickly, too!
I haven’t seen Otto-san for a while. I wondered if he will be surprised to see my belly.
So, I’m gonna see Otto-san for the first day in 3 weeks. I’m so much excited.

See you soon.

“You are a baby (Author: Mieko Kawakami)” (Bungeishunjū)
I recommend this book. Guys, I would like you to read this book. I mean husbands, boyfriends and male partners.

Self Introduction Otto-san

To begin with, first of all from self-introduction.

I (Otto) am 36 years old living in Fukuoka prefecture in Japan.
I joined my wife (Ori-San) in September 2016.

And baby (Cotori) is in the stomach of Ori-San.

Four months as of today.

I was surprised for a moment because I knew I could have a child soon after entrance,
How is that?
There is not real feeling so much, without saying that sense of responsibility is becoming special strong.
Myself live a normal life.

Since our relationship may be somewhat strange, it is better to explain before.

We and our husband and wife are living together before joining.
However, it is a so-called weekend marriage.

And even now it does not change.

I am going to stay at my house where my wife lives during the weekend and I am living alone on weekdays.

Why, like this situation, there are a lot of different things and I hope to tell you more in detail.

Originally we both had a marriage at the drinking place saying that weekend marriage is ideal, we have a history of getting involved,
Every time children can do it seems that this situation is francely and naturally taken.
(I do not understand Ori-San real intention :D)

Before Cotori was born it is working to live together properly,
Until then, I think that this life will not change.

Thankfully, Ori-San’s morning seems not to be bad as much as I thought, so I really appreciate it.
I do not know what will happen in the future …

In this blog, until our lives and Cotori are born,
Then since I began to live together, I wish I could write the living life of Cotori and the life of three people,
When Cotori came to be able to read letters, look at this blog,
I think that we can tell how our couple thought and how I felt at that time.

Here, I will write with my co-writing with Ori-san,
I hope you can enjoy the different views of the two.

Look forward to the future!